Monday, 13 January 2014

THE MANY PROBLEMS OF GOD’S FIRST WIFE



Death is the leveler of all men, great or irrelevant. We must all bow to the reality of our mortality at the end of the day. The wisest of people who discovered this early enough decided to throw back this inescapable fate in the face of death by immortalizing their names in the history of mankind. They broke new grounds, defied every law that said you couldn’t and there are many more who continue to tow this path even in our times. The most recent being our own Mandiba, who courageously fought for an ideal he believed in by sacrificing twenty seven years of his life in one of the worst prison camps in South Africa. At the end of the day, he was freed, by the people he fought valiantly for. He lived out the rest of his life taking full pride in the victory he had won alongside other heroes and heroines. So proud of his heritage he was that he refused to wear a suit to a dinner organized for him by the queen of England and was almost turned away. In fact, he got away also with addressing the queen by her first name ‘Elizabeth’. Such is the greatness of men who are not afraid to stand for what they believed. Even when they pay with their lives, their legacies will forever live on years after them.

This brings me to the issue of Nigeria’s relationship with God. The million worship places that decorate virtually every space and corner in our country would make you think this country is heaven’s headquarters. It is hilarious because we are the most woeful country on earth as far as progress is concerned.  Personally, I don’t have a problem with anyone who wants to thank God for anything. Nevertheless, it brings to fore the intentional weakness of Nigerians who in one breath they are standing for something and in another breath; they pull out of reason and give up on that very thing. When Nigerians were declared as the happiest people on earth some years back, a lot of people (as usual), decided to link it to our relationship with God, in other words, our very foolish and ill-informed reliance on religion as being the backbone of our inexplicable source of happiness. The popular biblical saying, ‘in every situation, give God praise’, has become our new mantra in this country, thus, heaps upon heaps of tragedy that could be averted, injustices that should be fought teeth and nails, irresponsible acts of the government and leaders in every sectors and corrupt practices are being chewed in acceptance as the norm in Nigeria.

What I don’t seem to get is how God can be benevolent, compassionate, kind, loving and still be attributed with every act of evil and tragedy that takes place in our personal and collective lives. It is so easy to hurriedly say ‘let’s leave it to God’ after being victims of oppression and disregard from people who owe us all the respect in the world. In Nigeria, scores of women and children are violated daily by people who are supposedly their loved ones and even spiritual guides and what do we get at the end? The culprit goes scot free and the victim is left without as much as a closure. Nigerians will rather let God be the judge than take justice in their hands and demand for it. The unfortunate but funny thing is that God seldom answers these supplications. I stand to be put right but how many times have we actually seen any kind of divine justice being meted out on evil men and women? Most of them suddenly become ‘men and women of God’ and we they beguile us with their tales of their sordid pasts and they become untouchables from that point because they have worn the garments of the anointed of God and once again, we are enslaved by them. The others live long and prosperous lives and are constantly feared and even celebrated. Last year alone, I lost count of the number of pastors, imams and relatives who sexually abused children and women who were entrusted to them for help.  

The picture of God that Nigerians have painted have convinced me more than ever that he must be different from the same one that Americans and other European countries are serving. Their god seem to be very open- minded, hates injustice, accepts homosexuals, inspires great economic ideas in their leaders and helps their citizens to be deeply patriotic. Our lawmakers are busy making laws that will imprison homosexuals in a country where the Penal Code allows a man to beat his wife in a bid to impact correction if she disobeys. How being an homosexual will impede on the fight against corrupt acts of government officials is still a mystery to me and how the same act will prevent our children from getting free education remains confusing.

Whether we accept it or not, this country is heading for doom, together with our ‘god of all circumstances’. While we are being deeply forgiving of evildoers, we can also clean up our own mess by ensuring that victims get human, not divine justice. Nobody really knows how the afterlife works. Not even all those unscrupulous jokers who have gone to heaven and returned with stories of a gold paved heavenly corridor, (the same gold God instructs women not to use is used to decorate heaven, funny, isn’t it?) and many other versions of heaven can tell how it works. While we still have our consciousness, let us insist that every evil riddling us in this country be stumped to the abyss of nonexistence.

This write up is dedicated to all the victims of injustices of every kind who were denied repose and to those who will be denied.
  

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